How is loyalty between spouses?

 Loyalty between spouses

Loyalty between spouses is important for the continuity and success of the marital relationship, as it is in one of those images. Which:

Keeping promises:

 Keeping promises between spouses contributes to enhancing mutual trust between them and the success of the marital relationship. And there are several things that must be followed, including: [1]

• Avoid making a promise to do something when you are not sure that you will not be able to keep it.
•  Being frank with the partner in case he is unable to fulfil the promise he made.
•  Use methods that help remember the promises made to the partner in case he forgets that often, for example: (writing text or voice reminders on the phone, or an alarm on the calendar about the promise you made).
•  Giving the life partner permission to remind him of the promise given to him for fear of being forgotten.

Sincerity in the marital relationship:

 Devotion, lack of sincerity and loyalty in the marital relationship is often a reason for its demolition and destruction. To avoid this thing, it is important to pay attention to some things and work with them for a happy and continuous marital relationship. Including:

• Trust in the life partner: At the beginning of the marriage, both parties make promises to their life partner, so it is very important for each of them to fulfil the promises he made to the other; Because in the event of perjury, trust will be destroyed, and it is also important to pay attention not to act in unnecessary matters, and it is possible to generate suspicion on the other party, and to work on taking sincere steps that suggest love and continuity to the other party.
•  Develop future plans and review them regularly: this is by implementing the plans agreed upon between the spouses and remembering them from time to time, doing things that increase the attention of the life partner, taking outings and surprises from time to time, and maintaining the status and priority of the wife after the presence of the children later.
• Spending time at home: by reducing some habits, including: (staying late at work, going with friends after work and dinner), or replacing them with options such as: (bringing work home) near the wife, and going out with the wife. Job).
•  Avoiding trouble, in order to avoid situations that aim to know the reaction of the other party, or to do things that may cause problems and doubts in the marital relationship.

How to maintain the relationship between spouses

There are many things that must be taken into account to maintain a successful marital relationship, including: [3]

• The companionship between spouses: To form a successful and happy marital relationship, it is necessary for them to have friendly companionship, by spending time, doing activities, and enjoying themselves with a life partner.
•  Compatibility: It is one of the important elements for the success of marital relations, due to the similarity of the members of this relationship in several respects, including: (hobbies, personalities, and political and religious likes).
•  Love: There are many types of love, including the love that is like a mother’s love for her child or a person’s love for his grandmother, and there is romantic love that makes a person crazy about love that lasts and helps to continue the relationship with the life partner forever.
• Kindness: Kindness has many meanings, including talking to others in a classy and gentle manner, and kindness is with the life partner by doing gentle movements such as patting the shoulder, and bringing him coffee, and these movements are of great benefit in the continuation of the marital relationship happily.
•  Good communication: this is by sitting quietly and talking rationally with the life partner to solve the problems that occur, and to remove the fears they face, and this method must be maintained in a permanent way and an open time.
•  Giving the wife a priority: The wife feels sad when the husband puts his work or other people before her in his priority list, so the husband must put his wife first to make the marital relationship happy.
• Spend more time together: It is useful for the two partners to make sure to spend time with family, children and friends, but it is preferable to allocate special time to spend with the partner alone, away from everyone, and to continue this for a happy marital relationship.
•  Talking and communication: The life partner must take care of the other party, and not spend most of the time on the phone and watching TV and ignoring it, and that is by sitting with him and talking and understanding as if this was their first meeting.
•  Promoting common values: in agreement with a life partner with some values ​​and not necessarily being similar with him in everything.
•  Making mutual plans for the future: It is necessary to make future plans for a happy marriage, such as: (When will the first pregnancy be, naming the first child, travelling to certain countries).
• Talking about problems: To solve problems, it is necessary to talk directly about them, empathize with the life partner, understand and look at his position from his own perspective for a happy married life free of conflicts.
•  Commitment in the relationship: Both parties in the marital relationship must commit to correcting the relationship and not giving up, and making continuous changes to renew and maintain this relationship.
•  Seeking professional help: One of the most successful marital relationships is the one in which the parties resort to someone more experienced, skilled and proficient in dealing with the problems that occur in the marriage, and this thing indicates the strength of the person and not his weakness; Because it saves this relationship from collapse.

a summary

Satisfaction is characterized as the law of marriage, showing full unwaveringness and love to a soul mate; With the point and investment, in dealing with any issue with the soul mate close by in troublesome conditions. Marriage.